Court Bilbrey LCSW

About Me

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 15 years of experience in social work, licensed in Illinois and Colorado. I have post-graduate training in Sex Therapy from University of Michigan (2016-18). As a sex therapist, I'm finalizing my certification hours. My current supervisor is Dr. Neil Cannon, sexologist, researcher, therapist, and faculty member. I regularly consult with peer therapists who work in similar fields to ensure I'm continually doing work to provide well-informed care.

Why Work With Me?

When providing therapy, I am warm, engaged, curious, and non-judgemental. I will help you sort out and understand your feelings, fears, habits, anxieties, and thought patterns, and give you space to test out sharing the most private, upsetting, and secret parts of yourself. 

Therapy Style

I draw from a variety of methods and practices.  Some favorites are: attachment-based, Internal Family Systems, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), feminist (recognizing the harmful impact of gender oppression on all genders, men too!),  "Good Enough Sex" model, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), narrative techniques, and anti-oppressive practices. 

A Final Note 

While we will focus on YOU, know that I will not ignore the impact of generational and community trauma and oppression. Too often, we ask individuals to bear the burden of fixing community-level issues, and we pathologize the ways individuals have learned to cope with such macro-level oppression. Although we live and work within harsh and broken systems, and often contribute to them unknowingly, I work hard to avoid pathologizing the ways you have learned to survive and get by. 

Recent Training

Trainings attended in 2023

• Midori's Fundamentals of Feminine Dominance: D&D, Archetype Cultivation & Practical Tools to Identify Desires

  • Provided to sex therapists and educators

• Dr. Sue Johnson's Intensive Course in Emotionally Focused Therapy: Attachment-Based Interventions for Couples in Crisis

• Live Couples' Experiential with Terry Real

• Sophia O'Connor's A Modern Take on the World's Oldest Profession: Sex Work Literacy in Your Office

• Dr. Cannon's A Strengths-Based Approach to Supporting Kinky Clients

• With Sprinkles On Top: An Introduction to Working with Mixed Desire (Kink/Vanilla) Relationships with Stefani Goerlich, PhD

• Sex Beyond the Binary: Re-Visioning Sex Therapy for Every Body with Lucie Fielding, PhD

• Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide to Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life with Dr. Holly Richmond

Training provided in 2023

• Sex Therapy with Queer Folks from Conservative Religious Backgrounds

  • Provided to iAm Clinic clinical staff

• Human Sexuality - masters' level course

  • Adjunct Faculty at University of Denver, School of Social Work (MSW program)